Hi and welcome to my socials page! :D

Hi ! :D I'm Lumina22y | little potato | french | Lion
(INFP/INTP)French-English-spanishGenderfluid : Androgine rn
~{Any pronouns}~
Don't have any preferred rn[Aromantic? & Asexual]
~Why do I show this info ? ->
I don't want people to be surprised when I tell them that I can't love them back romantically ~Also I'm proud of who I am, I want people to understand that yes feeling nothing for anybody romantically and sexually exist and is okay !

Please use tone indicators
https://toneindicators.carrd.co/#
(/j and /srs at least!! and/or use emoji !
^ Sometimes I can't understand your messages/emojis and I take it very badly, even if there was nothingYou can always DM me !
But please don't be sad or angry if I don't respond in days, even if I did see your message in the sec you send me:
^ maybe I have seen it but can't respond rn (Work...)
I'm maybe taking a social break because I'm overwhelmed (which happens often, unfortunately)I'm a verrrrryyyyyy Shy person despite my age
Please be aware that I will be present, but I won't talk until you ask me something or it's a topic that I know I will have something to say.
Will be enjoying my time with you even if I don't talk don't worry! :3

Don't baby me :0
I'm 22y' i know what harms me (mostly) !
(And having a "bad" sleep schedule when I'm on vacation is okay ;) )
The only reason you can do that a little is when I have my attacks! (Panic/Anxiety/Stress attack)Panic Attacks
When I have my attacks you can comfort me and distract me
You can do physical touch (not at the private area obviously)
And please warn me or know that I can see you approach before.Don't use common phrases like :
"you will be okay/it's okay/ nothing to be fear of around here"It can trigger me a lot more !!!
Just make me think about something else, breathing exercises
(i have some gifs on my phone!!)Phobias
Still have a phobia about Spiders and all flying things like a bee/wasp (sounds trigger me more than seeing one, unless they are very close to me)I'm okay with every cartoonish bee (like Minecraft)
Spider still makes me feel uneasy but I can watchReal spider (image/GIFs/video/IRL) little or huge is a NO DON'T for me, even funny one.Yes it's a common phobia, but you can't deny me for it.
Sometimes I don't have reaction about it because I'm trying to overcome my fears, but it's only when I'm feeling well and because I want it.
Never try to send me one and Say "but it's for helping you overcome your fear --' "

Real name & Pseudo
If you know my real name don't use it and don't spread it.
I hate it a lot and it's just a trigger for bad memories and other things.
Call me Lumina / Lum / Lulu / LumiMy voice !
I know for some people I have a Loli/High pitched voice :
It's my natural voice, I can't stop it for you and I won't use a voice changer
Deal with it or go away
And no, I'm not a child, adults can have that type of voiceMy Face
Do not post photos of my face if I don't have my mask !
If I'm in cosplay OR you did ask me it's okay!!
Still very self-conscious about it
(but don't hate it, so that's why you can see it sometimes)Flirt & Ship
DON'T TRY TO FLIRT WITH ME
I'm Ace/Aro (until I know I'm not, but too bad that I'm like that since 22y)
This means I don't know AND have feeling to love someone romantically and don't have any kind/want of sexual attraction for someone.
^ I know you don't want to harm me, but you do when you try and don't want to understand that yes, it's realI already try to date some people when I was young and some years ago, and let me tell you when you try to love but you can't, you, leaving the person, still hurt. Because I still love the friend that it was.I'm maybe okay with platonic relationships but never try.Do not ship me with others unless I'm in cosplay or doing Roleplays with my characters!Still okay with jokingly/RP (cosplay) flirting if tone indicators are used.

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